Getting to Know Me – Page 4 – Bushnell Unscripted

Posted on March 24, 2014 by JMB — 2 Comments

To The Moon and Back

Today marks the two year anniversary of the death of my beloved dog, Grandbury. He was just eight weeks shy of turning eighteen! He was a German Shepherd mix, and he was an amazing dog.

I always told him that I loved him “to the moon and back” and promised that I would be with him until the end. Two years ago he entered into a seizure that would not stop. Holding him as he took his last breath, I whispered those five words over and over into his ear, hoping my voice comforted him.

My sweet grand boy, I miss you. I’m thankful for every minute I shared with you.

Posted on March 14, 2014August 23, 2014 by JMB — Leave a comment

Lucky In Love: Married For Love Alone

Part Four of my Lucky In Love Series – My True Romance

The first day I walked onto the Texas Woman’s University campus in Denton, Texas, I said I wanted to be married in The Little Chapel-in-the-Woods. I never imagined that day would come in just nineteen months, but it did, and we were married in that beautiful spot.

We were married in March because that is the month in which we met. We married on the 14^th because that was one of the few dates that the Little Chapel was available. The 15^th was available, but this English major could not agree to marry on the “Ides of March.”

It was storming and pouring down rain the morning of our wedding. The rain stopped just prior to my bridesmaids leading me to the front of the Chapel. As I walked around the side of the Chapel, the sun pushed the clouds aside and shone brightly for the rest of the day.

Spring Break 1995 Jeannie is Married — We made the paper. The *Lasso* March 1995. “What I Did On My Spring Break…”

We footed the bill for our wedding, and the budget was so tight we served only our wedding cake and a groom’s cake at the reception. The only bites we had of our own cakes were memorialized in the traditional “feeding each other” photographs. Hours later, our first meal of the day would be a few packages of peanuts on the plane to our honeymoon.

People let us know exactly how they felt. “You are too young.” “You are throwing away your future.” “You’ll never accomplish your dreams.” “It won’t last.” “Are you pregnant?” “You will regret it.” “Are you sure?” “He isn’t really your type.” “She is awfully young.”

I was told by everyone, including strangers in elevators, not to marry at so young of an age. Everyone told me that the person you are at nineteen is not the person you’ll be at twenty-five or thirty-five. I listened to what they said, but I didn’t let their words destroy what I felt.

We wanted to marry because we were in love with one another. We didn’t want to wait another minute to begin our life together as a family.

Those concerned people were right; we aren’t the same people we were when we married. What they didn’t count on was our recognizing that marriage is hard work, and we vowed to always show up to our marriage the way an employee shows up to work. We show up every day and put the required effort in to keep the passion and love alive. We’ve grown together as a couple, never leaving the other behind. This is what works for us, and it is the reason we’ve lasted this long.

I can’t imagine what the road ahead has in store for us, as I never could have anticipated a moment of the time we’ve shared. I hope to live the rest of my days happily married to my best friend. The realist in me knows this may not be the case. Life is full of surprises, and the road we travel on this journey is bumpy and full of potholes. Anything can throw your world out of alignment. As the woman who has successfully weathered many a storm while holding her best friend’s hand, I believe that the two of us can make it through just about anything.

There isn’t anything we cannot achieve together. We are a team. A unit. A family. Fur and feathers included.

Happy Anniversary, Loren. I love you. I’m happy to partner up with you for another nineteen years.

March 15, 2014 – A new starting point in my life, as I’ve been with this one person longer than I existed without him. No one is more surprised than I am.

Read the previous posts in the Lucky in Love series:

Lucky in Love: On the Way to the Chapel

Lucky in Love: How We Met

March: Lucky in Love

Posted on March 13, 2014 by JMB — 2 Comments

Lucky in Love: On The Way To The Chapel

Jeannie and her husband on his beloved Goldwing.

Part Three of my Lucky In Love Series – My True Romance

I had a written plan for my future. I never intended to marry until I was at least twenty-seven. I met Loren, and the plan went out the window. Yes, he regrets the eyeglass frames and the mustache. I had big glasses, but I was too smart to wear them in the photograph.

Loren is a little older than I am. For example, in November 1987, he was entering the U.S. Navy,

and I was in the seventh grade. That is a six year age difference for all you fellow non-math people.

The third time I laid eyes on him, Loren got down on one knee and proposed to me on the steps of the beautiful historic Dallas County Courthouse in Dallas, Texas (now the Old Red Museum). He knew I loved the “old red courthouse” because it looked like a castle. The history of the building is detailed in the video below.

I loved my ring! Loren designed my engagement ring and commissioned an artist to make it.

No, not everyone believed in our love story, but that didn’t matter to us. I spent holiday break with him in Illinois, and he returned with me to Texas in January. We planned our wedding for March, a year after having met online.

Read the previous parts of the Lucky in Love Series:

Lucky in Love: How We Met

March: Lucky in Love

Posted on March 10, 2014March 13, 2014 by JMB — 2 Comments

Lucky in Love: How We Met

My husband and I met on Internet Relay Chat (IRC). I initially used the system to communicate with my boyfriend who had moved to another city, but I loved talking to people all over the world. I met Loren online when I was bored and sick with both mono and strep throat.

I didn’t have a computer in my dorm room. In order to get online, I either had to go across campus to a computer lab or reserve a computer in the lab on the bottom floor of my dorm. There wasn’t a simple button to click and connect to the internet, either. I learned how to create a virtual terminal connection with other computers and use IRC. It was a complicated process that I shared with my friends. The once empty computer stations were now constantly in use; my friends were all reserving computers to talk to people across the globe.

Once I started using the computer to chat on IRC, I was hooked.

TWU Fountain — Oh, if this fountain could talk. I can neither confirm nor deny if I’ve entered this fountain.

After three months of having only talked online and on the phone, Loren drove from Illinois to Texas to meet me. He’d sent me a photo of himself, but I wouldn’t send him a photo of me. He decided to stop waiting on me to send a photograph, and he came to see me in person. The first time I laid eyes on him, I felt as if I’d known him my entire life. There were no awkward moments, as we truly had become very good friends.

Five minutes after he’d left on his return trip to Illinois, I told my roommate that I knew I’d just spent three days with the man I would one day marry. Just before he reached the interstate entrance ramp, he stopped at a payphone to call and tell me he didn’t want to leave.

Read the next part in the Lucky in Love Series:

Lucky in Love: On the Way to the Chapel

March: Lucky in Love

Posted on March 1, 2014 by JMB — 6 Comments

March: Lucky in Love

Jeannie M. Bushnell Love Engagement Photo — Jeannie M. Bushnell Engagement Photo

March is a special month for me, as it is the month of my wedding anniversary. I’m not the world’s luckiest person, for I have been known to attract misfortune. Yes, I’m the person who causes my friends to proclaim, “I never knew anyone experienced stuff like that until I met you.”

I obviously wasn’t born under a lucky moon or star constellation, as it has been this way my entire life. I’m the queen of drawing the short stick. Instead of moaning about the misfortunes, I try to do more for others and appreciate all the good that I have in my life. Sure, I’m not made of stone, and many a moment has left me wondering “why” and has successfully brought me to tears, but I’m not a person who wallows in sadness. There is always someone in a worse situation, and I know this because when I feel down, I offer my time and shoulder to those who are in need. I guarantee that your sadness will fall to the wayside when you help others who are in need.

I am lucky when it comes to my partner—my husband. I prefer the term partner, as that is truly the word that reflects our relationship. We are partners in all things. I’m reticent to put this out in the universe, as I don’t want to suffer like Sandra Bullock did when she professed her undying love for her husband during her Golden Globes and Oscar acceptance speeches in 2010. The universe doesn’t seem to like it when a loving couple is either in a music video together or one of them speak about their affection for the other. Perhaps this is a celebrity issue, and I clearly do not have to worry about that. Yes, I’ll choose to believe that.

I am a lucky duck when it comes to my partner. He is kind, loyal, generous, patient, loving, and honest. I can say without the bat of an eyelash that he loves me unconditionally. He has taken care of me through many an illness, and cheered me on when I’ve nearly given up on everything. He makes me laugh at the silliest things, and he keeps me looking forward to the next step in our journey together. Our wedding anniversary is March 14,^,2014, and I will spend the next two weeks honoring my love with my blog posts. I hope you’ll enjoy the opportunity to get to know me a little better.

Posted on February 12, 2014December 2, 2015 by JMB — Leave a comment

Snow Day in Charlotte, North Carolina

Photograph of Jeannie Bushnell Snow Charlotte

Snow days in the South are much more fun than snow days in the North. My sixteen years in Illinois were filled with snow and ice storms that felt unending. As a native Texan, I’m happy to be located in a place where snow doesn’t wear out its welcome, but visits often enough to keep the magic and love of snow alive. The local news has forecast 7-10 inches of snow for our area, and the snow is definitely sticking and packing on the streets. Stay safe and warm, and bring those pets inside!

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Update: Check it out!! We did get a lot of snow–almost ten inches!!!

Posted on January 31, 2014 by JMB — 4 Comments

Manual Exposure Delicious Valentine’s Day Sale and Edible Panties Cookie Giveaway

Celebrate love and romance with me!

Bet you never thought you’d see that post title, eh?

While Manual Exposure is not erotica, there are some pretty steamy scenes and lines in the book. One of my favorites is when Kirby Chapman texts the following to Sage Brant:

“Then again, knowing you aren’t wearing panties makes me feel very excited about our next encounter. Sweet dreams, Strawberry. -KC”

In celebration of Valentine’s Day and the arrival of my paperback proofs, Manual Exposure can be purchased for $1.99 from February 1, 2014 – February 15, 2014! I hope you’ll take advantage of this sale, and pick up my book for yourself or someone you love.

Manual Exposure is available for purchase at Amazon.com and

Barnes and Noble.com

If you haven’t realized it by now, I love to have fun. You may not know that I am a vegan baker and cookie/cake decorator. I am passionate about sharing beautiful, delicious, and compassionate food. I thought I’d whip up some cute edible panties (sugar cookies with decorative fondant elements—all vegan), and offer them as a giveaway for Valentine’s Day.

Share them with your beloved, your best friend, or use them as an ice breaker with the hottie you’ve had your eye on. I just want you to enjoy them and have a wonderful day.

For the decorated cookie giveaway:

In the comments below or on Facebook, tell me your BEST or WORST Valentine’s Day story. I know you have them! Your story is the entry to win my decorated vegan cookies. A winner will be picked at random from all received comments (combined from my blog and Facebook page).

All entries are due by 5:00pm EST Saturday, February 8, 2014. I’m making the cookies fresh for you and mailing them out in time for a Valentine’s Day delivery. Color/design may vary.

Winner will be announced Saturday, February 8, 2014. Chosen winner MUST contact me by 5:00pm EST Sunday, February 9, 2014 to confirm shipment details for Monday, February 10, 2014. If the winner does not contact me, I will be choosing another winner. *This contest is sponsored by ME, not Facebook, WordPress, or anyone else.*

For those of you who’ve never experienced my vegan treats, you can experience what Kirby does when he says, “Seriously? Wow, I couldn’t tell the difference!”

Please share, and help me spread the word about Manual Exposure. Thank you, and may your Valentine’s Day be delicious!

Cookie Giveaway open to U.S. Residents Only!

Posted on January 30, 2014 by JMB — Leave a comment

Throwback Thursday: Jeannie Bundled Up

Photograph of Jeannie M. Bushnell as a young child in a coat.

Neither the cold nor the coat pleased me.

Roanoke, Virginia

Posted on January 25, 2014June 5, 2014 by JMB — Leave a comment

Read My Interview: Personal And Book News

I had the pleasure of being interviewed by Fiona McVie. She asked some very interesting questions. Scoot over and read the interview if you want to know more about me and Manual Exposure.

Thank you, Fiona!

Posted on January 23, 2014 by JMB — Leave a comment

The Manual Exposure Playlist Mixtape

Mixtape cassette image for manual exposure

The playlist of Songs, Artists, and Music that inspired Manual Exposure by Jeannie M. Bushnell

“Parachute” by Ingrid Michaelson

“Breakfast Can Wait” by PRINCE (yes, for those wondering, that is exactly what I wear when I bake)

“Wet” by Nicole Scherzinger

“Kiss Me” by Ed Sheeran

“Reach Out” by Hilary Duff

“Crush” by David Archuleta

“Bleeding Love” by Leona Lewis

“Give Me Love” by Ed Sheeran

“Back Together” by Jesse McCartney

“Landslide” by Dixie Chicks

“Buttons” by The Pussycat Dolls featuring Snoop Dogg

“Heart Attack” by Demi Levato

“Kisses Down Low” by Kelly Rowland

“Lego House” by Ed Sheeran

“Perfume” by Britney Spears

“Right There” by Nicole Scherzinger featuring 50 Cent

“I Don’t Need A Man” by The Pussycat Dolls

“How Long Will I Love You” by Ellie Goulding

“Work B**ch” by Britney Spears inspired me to get my butt in the seat and write.

When I’m not listening to a specific song, I always have classical music playing.

I played “How Long Will I Love You” by Ellie Goulding on repeat so often I was afraid my cat might stab me. If I had to pick a “theme” song for my book, this beautiful song would be it. I like to think this is Sage and Kirby’s song. Awwwww.